You hear heavy footsteps in the upstairs hallway when you know no one is up there. Doors slam unaccountably. Commonly used items disappear and reappear without cause. The kitchen light turns on by itself. There’s the unmistakable scent of a strange perfume in the air.
These may be indications that your house is haunted.
But, true hauntings are rare occurrences if they happen at all, and it may be difficult to determine whether or not any strange phenomena you are experiencing in your home might be due to a haunting. But if you think your house may really be haunted, what can you do about it?
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The first step is to determine, as best you can, whether or not you truly have a legitimate case of a haunted house.
Not all hauntings are alike, and they may exhibit a variety of phenomena. Some feature a single phenomenon, such as a particular door slamming shut that occurs repeatedly, while others consist of many different phenomena, ranging from odd noises to full-blown apparitions.
Most often, these phenomena are not seen directly. You might either hear the sounds of the doors opening and closing and as a homeowner, you get to know pretty well the distinctive sounds your house makes, or you might will return to a room to find a door open or closed when you are certain that it was left in the opposite position. Likewise, lights going on or off. these events are seldom seen actually occurring, but the lights are switched on or off when you know they were not left that way. You might have also noticed this with TVs, radios and other electrically powered items.
Do items disappear and re-appear? It’s that experience of losing your keys, which you believe you placed in the spot you always place them. But they’re gone and you look high and low for them with no success. Sometime later, the keys are found. In exactly the place you normally put them. It’s as if the object was borrowed by someone or something for a short time, then returned.
What about the sighting of fleeting shapes and shadows, usually seen out of the corner of the eye. Many times, the shadows have vaguely human forms, while other times they are less distinguishable or smaller.
Anyone who’s experienced some of these phenomena might have cause to believe that their house is haunted.
But maybe not.
In fact, according to most experts, probably not. The human mind and human senses, as any magician will tell you, are easily fooled. And people can often mistake unusual occurrences in their homes for the paranormal. Before you decide there’s a ghost in your house or move out from fear, do your best to find rational explanations for what you are experiencing. Virtually all of the phenomena we’ve talked about could have perfectly natural causes.
Noises could be house settling, plumbing or even vermin such as mice and squirrels. Opening and closing doors could be faulty hinges or caused by drafts. Disappearing objects could just be carelessness and forgetfulness and shadows could be just that, shadows – And, as real as some of these things might seem, they really could be just products of your imagination.
Get help in finding rational explanations for the phenomena. A plumber might help you find the cause of that banging. A carpenter can fix that door from closing on its own. A friend might be able to look at your particular experience in a different way and offer a reasonable explanation for your “haunting” that you might not have thought of.
Despite whatever strangeness you are experiencing, your house probably is not haunted. But if it is, perhaps it is a benign spirit that you can live with. Usually, it is something you need not fear.
Otherwise, it might be time to call the Ghostbusters.